Monday, 7 October 2013

Trust is such a delicate and yet magical word in relationships.

If you can learn to trust your partner, you’d have a lover, a best friend, and a confidant all in one.
Trust can do so many happy things to a relationship, but the best thing it can do is bring both of you closer, avoid pain and hurt, and make both of you fall more in love with each other every single day.

Most people are afraid of revealing their true inner sides in love.
At first, the guy and the girl are scared to kiss, and then they’re scared to go to second base, and then to the third.
Once they get past that, life gets a bit manageable and both of you start to open up with each other.

The body exploration is followed with drunken hangovers and awkward moments like untimely burps and dirty underwear. And then comes the first snore which is quite funny.
And yeah, we have the first fart. This is a difficult barrier to break, farting in front of a lover, and don’t we all know this. Once we’re comfortable with the fart, there’s really no stopping it!

It’s all funny and nice. But do you realize the one thing that matters here?
Every single incident that happened here didn’t happen just like that. Every single step took a little bit of trust that eventually accumulated into the comfort of the first noisy fart.

Once you know how to build trust in a relationship, the relationship enters the next little stage and gets that much happier and relaxed.


Three steps to building trust in a relationship

If you want to know how to build trust in a relationship, learn to be frank with your partner. Your partner is your lover, but they’re also supposed to be your best friend, a person who knows you and understands you better than anyone else in the whole world. Use these three steps to build trust in a relationship and it’ll go a long way in creating a happy relationship

#1 Talk about the long term

Are you looking for a serious relationship with your lover? If you are, you’re obviously in for the long haul. So make plans for it too. Talk about building a bigger house, having a pet dog, or how both your lives would be ten or twenty years from now. By talking about the future, you’re reassuring your partner that you truly want to be with them and see them in your life even as the years and decades pass by.

#2 Be dependable

Being dependable is one of the biggest factors in knowing how to build trust in a relationship. If your partner asks you to get something on your way back to your place, do you get it or do you forget it? It could be the little things or it could be the big ones, but if you can be dependable, it makes all the difference in a happy relationship.

#3 Talk about the people you fancy

This can seem awkward and weird, but this is one of the biggest factors in building trust in a relationship. One of the biggest insecurities in a relationship is the fear of a partner straying away into someone else’s arms or liking someone else secretly. But actually acknowledging that either of you can find someone else attractive, you’re not making it taboo anymore. And by being truthful about it, you can build trust in the relationship and improve communication too.

Now knowing how to build trust in a relationship is not a small feat, but it’s something that can make both your lives happier and stress free, as long as you know to communicate and understand how to build trust in love.

African Brides Photo Gallery

This week,we are showcasing different bridal hairstyles that will make you look like a disney princess on that special day.





Saturday, 28 September 2013

Unfortunately,Khloe Kardashian takes one step out of her marriage has she drops 'Odom' as her last name.


One of the seemly perfect marriages to be aired on a reality TV show as reached it's breaking point. Khloe has eventually removed her husband's name from her twitter and facebook account. 5...4...3...2...before they announce the divorce. This is why I always say...y'all shouldn't believe everything you see on TV,because a Rudolph Valentino on TV might be another Iyke Turner in real life. Never use romantic movie characters as your standard for choosing a lover. You heard! Lol

Banky is single again!


Hey ladies!. I got great news for some of y'all who fantasize daily about being called 'Mrs. Wellington' someday. The RnB singer, Banky W said in an interview with Nigerian Tribune that he is officially 'back in dating business'. Apparently, it seems his much talked about relationship with Ghanian beauty Andrea Giaccaglia didn't work out. Now I think Nigerian ladies who are always making noise about Ghanaian ladies taking their man, now have another chance to prove that they capable of being 'Mrs. Capable'.

African Brides Photo Gallery

We are showcasing beautiful wedding attires worn by our African sisters from the ancient Benin city in Nigeria.

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SuKi's TOP 5

SuKi's TOP 5

Love...they say;is stronger than anything and it conquers everything. But it takes more effort to keep the fire burning,in a situation where you find yourself miles apart with the love of your life.
  All you have to hold on to is the sweet memories you both shared or better still,imaginations of that magical moment you'll be in each-other's arms again,or for the very first time.
  When you are in a long distance relationship, you are stuck in love but apart from each other in way too many moments, seeking for solace in love. At such times, music play much of a role in keeping your love alive and long distance relationship songs are a great way to make this happen.

     Here are my TOP 5 long distance relationship songs...what are yours?

5. Missing you now - Micheal Bolton

4. Whenever you call - Mariah Carey and Brian Mcknight

3. My heart will go on - Celine Dion

2. You are not alone - Micheal Jackson

1. Long distance – Brandy

How to Cook Nigerian Yam Porridge (Asaro) – Nigerian Food Recipe


 

Nigerian Yam Porridge is a classic Nigerian dish you can’t go wrong with, it is very filling and divine in taste. The very simple approach for this tasty Nigerian Food Recipe is shown below. It is very straightforward and highly recommended.

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Ingredients:

·         White Yam

·         Red Pepper

·         Onion

·         Scotch Bonnet

·         Plum Tomatoes

·         Aromat Seasoning

·         Mixed Herbs

·         Salt

·         Knorr Cubes

·         All Purpose Seasoning

·         Palm Oil

Cooking Instructions:

·         Blend the plum tomatoes, scotch bonnet, red pepper and onion together.

·         Dice the white yam into medium size pieces and place into put, then add blended pepper with some water.

·         Season with Knorr cubes, salt, mixed herbs, Aromat, and all purpose seasoning and finally, palm oil.

·         Allow to cook on medium heat for approximately 35 minutes. Use the back of your cooking spoon to mash some yam in the pot, creating the yam paste. Give it another 10 minutes and it should be ready.

·         Serve with grilled chicken wings or any meat or fish of your choice.

·         Enjoy peeps!